Showing posts with label calling. Show all posts
Showing posts with label calling. Show all posts

Thursday, July 8, 2010

[Attempting to Become] All Things to All People

Do you ever read the Bible and find yourself being totally challenged by something you find?  If you read the same Bible I do than I would imagine your answer would have to be yes... at least every once in a while!


In the Apostle Paul's first letter to the Corinthians he talks of 'becoming all things to all people for the sake of the gospel.'  His desire was to do whatever it took to win people for Christ... and I find myself wondering how well do I reflect this desire and attitude?  If I'm honest, I'd probably have to say - not very well and not very often.


My reality is that I often want God to use me just as I am... so that I don't have to move from my place of comfort and do something that stretches me beyond what feels natural and safe.  

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Competing Missions

Last Monday my post centered on the question: Are we the local church OR an arm reaching on to the campus?


One of the big reasons I tend to believe that we are an 'arm', and not the local church, is because of the context - and more specifically - who controls it.


Campus ministry is, to a certain extent, subject to the academic institution.  Unlike the local church, campus ministries  will have to - again, to a certain extent, play by a certain set of rules... that they have no say in creating.  Whether it is an institutionally-based ministry on a Christian campus, or a para-church or church-based ministry that reaches out to any given campus; all will have to shape their mission and ministry to fit within the larger mission and communal guidelines of the campus community (or run the risk of being banned from campus).

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Searching for Significance


| Guest post | Nathan Foster | 

I once heard an ultra-conservative guy who had built his ministry empire on the proselytizing of “family values” give his pseudo-retirement address. Apparently, after spending years of working at the ministry 60 to 80 hours per week, he had decided that it was time to slow down. Even at retirement, however, he seemed completely unaware of the notion that he may have spent more time focusing on his work than his own family. He was championing the value of being a workaholic.

My father and I once spent a couple of hours analyzing the lives of influential Christian men, both current and historic. With limited data, we tried to assess just how well famous people bore the name “Father.” It became clear to us that the history of evangelical men was largely a story of men who ditched their families
(excerpt from Wisdom Chaser).



Thursday, June 10, 2010

Confessions of an "I"



Hi.  My name is Guy and I'm an introvert.


No, I'm not a recovering introvert, just one that needs to remind myself - and others - from time-to-time that God has made me this way.


I enjoy my cave time.  A LOT.  


The summers on campus often feel like a blissful hibernation of sorts.  Sure, there are the occasional meetings, interactions with other members of my staff, etc., but for the most part there's a lot of quiet space.  I like quiet space.


Sometimes I wonder, however, if being an "I" makes me less effective as a minister on campus.  Are there any other introverts out there that sometimes wonder this same thing?

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Hocking Jesus







:: [Guest Post by Michael McCord] ::

NOTE:   As you read this I will be walking the streets of Nassau while introducing other campus ministers to the mission possibilities there. I wrote this blog post several months ago after returning from a mission trip with eleven students. It is mostly in response to a deep conversation we had about what will happen when the students leave college. See, they get it – they’re tired of churches that are more concerned with creating their own world rather than changing THE world for the sake of The Kingdom.

So as our students walk across their stages and receive their long expected degrees, will there be a church they can be part of? Will there be a movement of Jesus followers who actually pray as Jesus taught us… and believe it?

9 "Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name. 10 Your kingdom come. Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. 11 Give us this day our daily bread.  12 And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. 13 And do not bring us to the time of trial, but rescue us from the evil one.

I was recently walking through the straw market in Nassau, Bahamas. I’ve been there close to a dozen times on mission trips through our Wesley Foundation. It’s a familiar experience to me. What struck me during my most recent visit was the likeness that I found between the current church models and this collection of traders.

When you are new to the scene, you instantly become overwhelmed by the shear size of the venue and the number of traders packed into the space. At times, you may be pressed against the musky cigar trader who’s covered in sweat and whispering, “green, mon, want some green” (note: green is marijuana, for those who don’t know) while a little old lady from one of the cruise ships elbows her way through the crowd. That’s just another typical day in the straw market. What one realizes once they have been to the market several times is that most of the merchants are all selling the same thing. In fact, they actually work for the same boss.


Monday, May 24, 2010

Got Milk?



:: [Guest post by Bob Henry] :: 

A couple of weeks ago, as I was driving to pick up my kids from school, I came across an unusual scene.  

Well, not that unusual - most of us have done it at one time or another.  Somewhat lost in my thoughts, enjoying the tunes playing on the radio, I caught something out of the corner of my eye.  There, about four lanes of traffic away, and waiting on the adjacent light to turn green, was a man in a car.  That may not seem that interesting, but what caught my attention was the gallon of milk on his roof.   My instinct was to laugh and say, “What an idiot.”  Then I noticed something happening. 

People in cars on all four sides of the intersection were trying to get this guy’s attention.  Motioning with their hands, rolling down windows and yelling – you name it, they were doing it.  I still just chuckled to myself.  Then I realized I was in the man’s view and may be able to get his attention.  I began motioning by pointing at my roof.  He saw me and began looking.   I pointed up and he looked up.  He wasn’t getting it.  Finally, at the last minute, the man in the car behind him, jumped out of his car, grabbed the gallon of milk and handed it through the window to the unaware man. 

Oh, we all felt good.  People drove through that light with smiles on their faces, as if we had solved a major crisis.  The rest of the drive to pick up my kids had me thinking about what I just experienced.  

How many of us have “milk cartons” on the roofs of our lives? 


Friday, May 14, 2010

Layers of Leadership


For those of us in college ministry, the idea of equipping and developing young people for a life of following Christ is central to what we do.

Some of us have recognized the need for additional leadership in our attempts to reach our campuses - and found an answer in some of our students who really 'get it' - a willing army of moldable young leaders.  We've seen how this kind of experience for them can serve to shape them in some profound ways, while at the same time, multiply our efforts and reach across the campus.

I wonder, however, how many of us have looked into the additional layer of leadership that can be provided by recent grads and/or graduate students.  

My entry into the 'professional' side of college ministry came through a graduate assistant type of opportunity.  It was a great opportunity for me, right out of college, to explore my sense of calling into ministry - and specifically in a college campus context.

If this is not a layer of leadership you've ever considered, let me give you a few reasons why I think you should consider finding space in your ministry leadership for a graduate assistant or intern:

Monday, May 10, 2010

Have We Done All We Could?


It's graduation week for many of us!  The time of the year when we send our graduates off into the world to live out their dreams, live into their passions, and to make the world a better place... right!?

A couple of weeks a go I asked this question in my weekly poll:

What's the biggest issue facing graduating seniors?

Here are the results of the voting:

  • A tough job market - 26%
  • Unrealistic expectations about the future - 13%
  • School debt - 13%
  • The need for more education and/or experience - 13%
  • A lack of direction for the future - 33%
The responses left by respondents, from all over the country, have left me wondering if we have done all that we could for our soon-to-be graduates...

Thursday, May 6, 2010

Ideas for May



It's May!


That typically means the end of the academic year... unless that came in April for you.  Either way, it's time to start thinking about saying good-bye to students and preparing for a different season of ministry life - the summer.


I've started posting some ideas at the beginning of each month as a way of mapping out my upcoming month - and I thought some of you might need (or have) some ideas for May as well (I would normally post this information on the first day of the month - but we've been experiencing some flooding here in Nashville... so here you go - a few days late).


A few posts from the month of April that might be worth checking out - if you missed them - or if you are transitioning into a season with some more space for rest and recuperation are:


Friday, April 23, 2010

Top 10 Issues College Students Face



There's so much that makes up the college experience... so many opportunities, so many potential pitfalls.  

How well do we assist students in navigating the waters of the college years?

Maybe before we can accurately answer this question we must first ask, "what are the big issues that our students are dealing with?"  If we've not taken the time to answer this question than we must ask ourselves, "how relevant is our ministry?"

I've been working with college students for the last 13 years of my life.  I know there are plenty of you out there who have been working with college students longer than I have (so I hope you'll chime in down in the comments section), or have experienced ministry with college students in different contexts than I have (so your insight will be crucial as well), but here are the top 10 issues I see college students facing today - issues that MUST influence how we 'do ministry.'

Top 10 Issues:

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Longevity in College Ministry



A few weeks ago I started polling my readers so I could:

  • better understand who you are,
  • gain some statistical data,
  • test out some theories I have,
  • attempt to provide some posts that are meaningful and relevant to the work we are doing.

     The question I posed two weeks ago was:
    How long have you been serving in college ministry?
    Nearly 70% of those who took the poll reported having served in college ministry for 6 years or more (6-10 years 31%; 11-20 years 31%; and 20+ years 6%).  I, myself, am just finishing my 13th year serving in college ministry.  Over my 13 years of working with college students I have worked on 4 different campuses - within 3 different denominations - spanning 3 different geographical regions within the US.  The results of my poll, coupled with my own experiences over the course of my ministry life thus far, have served to confirm a bit of wisdom I was given when applying for my first position in college ministry:

    Friday, April 16, 2010

    The Grass On The Other Side


    Have you ever stopped to wonder what you might be doing if you weren't doing college ministry?


    For some of us, maybe we find ourselves thinking about this often... even too often.


    But is the grass really greener on the other side of the fence?


    Sure, sometimes a change of career - a new vocational understanding - requires us to move on from where we are.  But sometimes I think some of our mental wanderings simply serve to distract us from the ministry we have been called to.


    I think, however, there's also another option for us to consider here... 
    Is it possible, that in considering some of the other things in life that:

    • bring us joy
    • use are gifts
    • expose us to new things
    • cause us to consider a career change
    that God might be wanting to grow our current ministry context?  Is it possible that He might want to bring in to our current ministry context some of our gifts/talents/passions that we're not currently making good use of?  Is it possible that the day-to-day approach to ministry we've grown comfortable with is no longer sufficient, and God is trying to stir in us some new ways of engaging in our daily work?

    What do you think?

    How would you know if God was calling you to something new OR simply calling you to broaden your approach to ministry in your current context?

    What are some of the gifts/talents/passions that you possess, that you don't currently make good use of in you ministry setting?

    I'd love to hear what you think!

    Grace and peace.

    Thursday, April 15, 2010

    Part II :: Moses AND Joshua :: Different Sides of the Same Ministry



    I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow. ~ I Cor. 3:6


    Understanding our purpose and calling as leaders is SO important.  We are not all called to do the same things.  We are not all called to serve the same people... in the same ways.  All places and problems are unique - and God calls us based on the unique gifts/talents/passions He has designed us with to 'go and do' what He calls us to.



    In my post yesterday I shared some thoughts on how the unique nature of Moses' leadership of the Israelites might be able to shed some necessary light on our current ministry leadership experience.  


    Today my attention turns to Joshua and how God chose to use him to complete the mission that He had originally called Moses to - conquering the Promised Land for the Israelites to inhabit.


    The task had been Moses', but now it was Joshua's.  Joshua had been with Moses, even serving as a spy sent to explore the Promised Land in the book of Numbers, but at the end of Deuteronomy we see Moses passing on his leadership baton to the new leader of the Israelites.  


    The mission was not complete, but Moses' part in the process was.
    Joshua's 40 year of leadership would take on a much different look than that of his predecessor.  All of the struggles that Moses experienced while moving the Israelites towards the Promised Land would be replaced, in Joshua's season of leadership, with success in the form of a united Israelite army following - ultimately - the leadership of God.


    But wasn't Moses' ministry leadership critical to setting the stage for Joshua's success?  Some of us may too quickly give all of the credit to God... and truthfully, He may be deserving of it.  I wonder, however, if as we look at this transitional period in the history of the Israelites, we don't catch a glimpse of how God chooses to use different people - in different seasons - for different reasons.


    Would Moses' really have been able to lead the military campaigns in the successful manner that Joshua did?  Would Joshua have been able to deal with the stiff-necked nature of the Israelites for 40 years in the same way that Moses did?  It's hard to say with any certainty, but it's definitely worth us considering.


    These two men led the Israelites in different ways through very different seasons of their history.  And if we pull back just a bit on the panorama of their history, we are reminded of the Patriarchs and Joseph who helped to pave the way for these two men... and if we pull back further yet we'll see that faithful individuals like the Judges, Ruth, Samuel, some of the Kings, the Prophets, Esther, Ezra, Nehemiah, Jesus & the Disciples, Paul, Timothy and many others were used to lead the Jewish nation at different times in their collective history.


    The point that I'm trying to make is that we never know for sure where our leadership will fall in the lifetime of a ministry context.  We don't know how our current course of action - including our present challenges and/or success - are setting the stage for the leaders who will come after us.  Neither do we oft consider the legacy of those who have come before us... and how all of their efforts have helped to set the stage for us.


    We are stewards of the relationships and ministry contexts that God chooses to entrust to us.  


    SO:


    How does this truth shape your current ministry leadership?


    What role do you currently find yourself playing (soil tiller, seed sower, waterer, pruner, harvester, other)?


    Does it help you in your current ministry season to consider that God has called you to it, designed you in ways to help it, as well as to see that you are simply carrying out the role that God has asked of you... in the line of many who have come before you... and the many who will come after you?


    I'd love to know what you think.


    Grace and peace.

    Wednesday, April 14, 2010

    Moses AND Joshua :: Different Sides of the Same Ministry


    Have you ever stopped to consider your place in the life of the ministry you are serving in?

    If you're anything like me... probably not.

    God is so clearly at work in the world - and on our campuses.  But are we presently aware of the fact that He was present [in our ministry context] long before we arrived... and will be there long after we've left?  Our perspective is too often limited solely to the season of ministry that we are present for and I think we need to be challenged to pull back and consider the larger picture.

    The story of Moses and Joshua are helping to challenge me in this regard.

    Moses could be considered the "big man on campus" of the Pentateuch, if not the Old Testament.  Moses is the central leadership figure in the books of Exodus, Numbers and Deuteronomy - no other Old Testament leader had a ministry that spanned more than one book in duration.  Moses was connected to some of the greatest miracles within the Bible - the burning bush, the 10 plagues, the Israelite' escape from Egypt, the parting of the Red Sea, manna from heaven, water from a rock, etc., etc., etc.


    Tuesday, April 13, 2010

    IF Jesus Becomes Business



    Got Jesus?


    As one called into ministry, this can be a scary question to encounter.


    There's a very real danger for all of us who have been called into ministry... that we would become so intensely focused on the 'doing' of ministry that we would neglect our need to 'be' with Jesus.


    Maybe you've experienced this.  Or maybe you've experienced the ministry leadership of someone who has experienced this.  You might not be able to quickly put your finger on it, but it is much more noticeable than we might think.


    When we, as Christian leaders, cease to intentionally follow Jesus and instead, begin to rely on ourselves, we quickly run out of anything real substantive to offer others.  The reservoirs of faith that we may have made deposits in over the course of our lifetime of following Jesus will only keep us going for so long... and that doesn't account for what we must 'have' in order to 'give' to others.



    Thursday, April 8, 2010

    Are You Available? Accessible?



    Ministry can be IS a challenging calling.


    A life committed to discipleship and service is one that calls us to be available to others, accessible nearly all the time.


    This call to ministry is a high calling for so many reasons, not the least of which is our need to be willing to set aside our own agendas each and everyday to follow the leading of Christ.  And as we all know, this is much easier said than done.



    Tuesday, April 6, 2010

    Savoring the Cupcakes



    Every campus is different.  No ministry the same.  Even our missions can vary somewhat from context to context... 


    One thing we share, however, is our need for encouragement in the midst of our service.  


    Whether we consider our ministries to be widely successful, or sparsely fruitful, seeing students 'get it' can be as sweet as the tastiest of treats.  


    A few months ago I had a colleague show up in the doorway of my office with an incredible-looking cupcake in her hand.  She knew that I had been in the midst of a challenging season of ministry on campus, but happened to find me with a big smile on my face...

    Monday, March 29, 2010

    Well Curve/Recession Connection?



    Last week I posted some thoughts on a disturbing trend I've noticed on our campus... a trend where sophomore and junior year involvement in ministry related activities is substantially less in comparison to that of freshmen and senior involvement; and based on some of the comments I've heard, and conversations I've had with other college/campus ministers since then, it would appear that this trend is not unique to our campus.


    The well curve of student engagement in spiritual activity on campus can be tied to a number of things... both good and bad.


    On the up side, it can point to:


    1. students getting plugged into a local church, which allows them to get involved in a multi-generational and/or college specific ministries, or 
    2. students taking initiative to create personalized opportunities with friends on campus.

    Thursday, March 25, 2010

    Just 1 Question

    I still remember it like it was yesterday... but it happened nearly 13 years ago.


    I was a senior in college, and out to lunch with my campus pastor, just days before I was to interview for my first campus ministry position.


    We had spent some time catching up on our spring break experiences and were waiting for our food to arrive when his questions turned to my upcoming interview:


    "So, are you ready for this interview?"


    "I guess," I said, "I've never had a phone interview before... so how hard could it be?"


    "Well, if it were me, I would just have one question for you..."


    I stared back at him.


    "Seriously," I said, "just one?"


    "Yep, just one question..."


    "OK," I said, "I'll bite... what's your one question?"



    Thursday, March 11, 2010

    Partnering with Former Students


    Have you ever thought about working with former students? Wait, maybe 'partnership' is a better way of thinking about it...

    Have you ever partnered with former students that you once spent time, energy and effort investing in?

    Maybe it was an initiative on campus... or something that took place on the other side of the world? Possibly a one time event... or maybe it was something that was ongoing over the course of a semester or year?

    Partnering with alumni from your ministry [be it your present ministry location or one from your past] can be a powerful experience for everyone involved.

    For your current students experiences like this can serve as a visual for what someone 'on the other side' of graduation, from both college and your ministry, can turn out like. It can also help them to understand the importance of being committed to your relationship and personal discipleship. Experiencing a partnership like this can serve as a powerful motivation for students who may be struggling with their:
    • faith
    • vocation
    • motivation levels
    • desire to graduate
    • fears about the future
    • among others, I'm sure...
    Experiencing a young professional who is 'making it' and who is also willing to 'give back' to you and your ministry efforts can go a long way to strengthen a wide variety of commitments.

    For the former student/now partner an opportunity like this can serve as an incredible encouragement to them in that it speaks to:
    • your commitment to your relationship with them
    • your belief in them
    • your belief in their current work
    • your belief that this individual is worthy of providing leadership to your group
    Opportunities like this, for former students to 'give back' to something that has been an important part of their life, as well as to receive a gift in reconnecting with a piece of their past can be significant! You never really know how God might choose to use an experience like this for them!

    And for YOU, the minister/pastor-type, a partnership like this can be the kind of thing that God uses to:
    • remind you of how He has worked in the past
    • encourage you in your current work
    • validate your sense of calling
    • strengthen ties with students - past and present
    • give you visions of future work
    Yes, choosing to partner with students from your past can be a very beneficial thing... for everyone involved!